Hello Webwebweb,
First you will have to log into your server as root. Then first thing you will havbe to do is to type the following commands
#nice top -c
This will show a number of running process which is taking the memory and CPU load
Check the user which is running the process and if it is not root kill that process by kill -9 processid
then if httpd or mysql or exim is taking the load then restart each services
#service httpd restart
#service mysq restart
If you are unaware of all these please contact me at
supportmatrix@gmail.com
Regards
SupportMatrix
Senior System Admin